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COACHING YOU TO THE CHUPPAH
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Tired of Shidduch Dates
That Go Nowhere?

Get the clarity and structure to date with purpose and move toward marriage with confidence

✓ Date with purpose

✓ Gain clarity in your decisions

✓ Move toward marriage

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How I Can Help

Shidduchim can feel confusing and pressured. Coaching gives you a calm place to think clearly, understand yourself, and make better choices.
1-on-1 Coaching
Personal guidance to help you clarify your values, dating goals, communication style, and next steps.
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Dating Clarity
For singles who are dating someone and need help sorting through confusion, hesitation, or pressure.
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Shidduchim Bootcamp
A structured program covering bitachon, expectations, deal-breakers, emotional readiness, and communication.
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Meet The Shidduch Guy

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Hi, I'm Rabbi Refoel Hershkowitz founder of The Shidduch Guy. 

I help singles approach dating with clarity, confidence, and a practical framework grounded in Torah values, emotional intelligence, and bitachon.

Whether you're struggling with overthinking, uncertainty, communication issues, or knowing whether to move forward, coaching can help you take the next step with greater peace of mind.

A clear framework for making the right decision

How I Can Help
 

Coaching, courses, and Torah-based guidance to help you date with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

Dating Coach

Personalized coaching to help you navigate dates, identify red flags, and make confident relationship decisions

Shidduchim Bootcamp

A proven framework that teaches communication, emotional readiness, relationship skills, and wise decision-making.

Navigating Shidduchim with Bitachon

Learn how to replace dating anxiety with trust, resilience, and a healthier perspective on the shidduch process.

Success Stories

What Singles are Saying about Working with the Shidduch Guy

"Rabbi Hershkowitz helped me stop overthinking every date. For the first time, I had a clear framework for making decisions."

 

— Single, Monsey

"The coaching gave me confidence and practical tools I could actually use. Dating became much less stressful."

 

— Single, Lakewood

Ready to Gain Clarity in Your Dating Journey?

"The bitachon perspective completely changed how I approached shidduchim. I felt calmer and more focused."

— Single, Brooklyn

Frequently Asked Questions

What services do you offer?

The Shidduch Guy offers a variety of services, including coaching sessions, workshops, and online courses, all designed to assist orthodox singles in the dating process and enhance their relationship skills.

How do I book a coaching session?

Booking a session with The Shidduch Guy is simple. Reach out via our contact form or phone number, and we will help you find a suitable time for your coaching session.

What can I expect from coaching?

During a coaching session, you can expect a supportive environment where we discuss your dating experiences, challenges, and goals. Together, we will develop actionable strategies to help you navigate the shidduch process successfully.

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